June 07, 2018

What I Did Before I Became A Blogger… And How (Some) Of Those Roles Help Me Now

what I did before I became a blogger

Sometimes I can’t remember what I did before I was blogging. I mean I can of course, but it feels weird to think that I ever had any job other than this all consuming thing. The thing that I have an unending amount of love, passion and enthusiasm for and the thing that continually fuels the creative fires.

But other jobs I’ve indeed had, so I thought in order to mark the big 10 year Bloggiversary, it would be fun to have a light-hearted look back on what I did before I became a blogger, what I learned and how (some) of those roles help in my blog business now.

And because your experiences make you the person you are today.

left school at 16 to be a hairdresser

W H A T  I T  T A U G H T  M E…

… that I didn’t want to be a hairdresser, that you can descale sinks with vinegar and that perm lotion smells like rotten eggs.

In all seriousness, it was my first foray into the big wide world of work and first encounter with some suitably scary grown ups too. The head stylist wore a white jumpsuit to signify her seniority (the rest of us had what can only be described as muddy beige dresses), and used to throw perm curler rods back at us if we passed her the wrong ones.

It taught me how to get on and knuckle down to hard work that I really didn’t enjoy. On leaving school I wanted to go to college but due to a parental split finalising around this time, this wasn’t an option.

So I completed the year’s YTS experience (remember those – £25 a week!) so it would look okay on my CV… whatever that might look like eventually. It taught me the importance of being polite to customers and to ignoring the petty behaviour of grown ups who really didn’t act like grown ups.

And it made me vow never to have a shampoo and set once I got older. So far so good…

monochrome desk situation flatlay photography

Went to work in a family window blind manufacturing business


… that you should be prepared to muck in on all levels and show that you can go above and beyond the call of your original job description.

I began by learning the ropes of running the office, serving customers and sending out invoices.

By the time I left I knew how to assemble those slatted vertical blinds, what the difference was between an Austrian and a Roman blind was and how to look after the bosses kids when his wife needed to be in the office.

Most significantly, I got to see what goes into running a small business, the importance of treating employees well and how having them invested in the company, no matter what it’s size, can make all the difference.

I also vowed never to have vertical blinds in any future property I might live in.

desk essentials laptop glasses and notepad

the Large bank/Insurance Company


…what it’s like to work in a big office. I both loved and loathed it at the same time.

Aged 18 I’d moved to Andover for a boy… who, a couple of years later, ended up being my husband for all of ooh about, eighteen months.

Short (and disastrous) marriages aside, this first foray into an Accounts department was to set a precedent for the rest of my corporate career. Be really crap at maths at school, go work in Accounts – go figure. Or go work with figures.

I vowed to never again move towns for a boy… or marry someone who highlights his hair more that I do.

large Health Insurance Company No. 1


… that some people can work their way up way quicker than you can because their face fits better than yours.

I also learnt the ins and outs of collecting premiums by direct debit, what BACS stood for (Bankers’ Automated Clearing Service in case you were wondering) and how to placate angry customers on the phone who personally blame you for all that is wrong with your systems, the banks systems… and any other systems they can think of too.

Also, even though your marriage is in the toilet, I recommend that you don’t use the office messaging system to flirt with the man in IT who paid you some attention. Someone else is monitoring those messages and because they’re ever so slightly weird, they might try a sly attempt at intimidating you.

I vowed never again to use office messaging systems for the purposes of flirtation.

online-stylist-blog viewed-on-ipad

Even larger Health Insurance Company No. 2


… that it’s okay to use the office messaging system to flirt with the actuary you’ve had your eye on for a few months… especially when you find out he’s now single. As are you!

The successful office relationship part came nearer the end of my fifteen year career here and before that, I learnt so much in this job. From the best and worst bits of people management to the complicated workings of an accounting system and how to effectively run a purchase ledger for a large company. Both of these have been instrumental in helping with the business of blogging.

From team management I learned that you can’t please all the people all the time and not everyone will like you, what you stand for or the decisions you’ll make. And that’s more than fine.

And when it comes to me paying the people I need to, and more importantly getting paid in order to keep Online Stylist afloat, having an understanding of how payment systems work, the importance of cash flow, pipeline income etc. and maintaining some sort of business budget has been invaluable.

I also formed some of the best friendships here that I’ll carry with me for life.

Oh and by the way, I vowed to marry the actuary. And I did.

Becoming a Mum


… that it never stops evolving and it’s the most challenging role you’ll ever ever have.

It will test you to your limits, give you sleepless nights that progress from the newborn kind to those that come as you hit the teen years… and I’m told, forever beyond and always. Amen.

But it will grow a fiercely protective love inside of you that you never knew existed and root your feet to the ground stronger than anything else in the world can. It’s humbling and elevating in equal parts and provides you with a sense of self that becomes stronger as both you and your offspring grow older and weather all the storms of motherhood.

And I vow to become better at it everyday. I’ll keep you posted on that one…

The one thing that’s been running around my head on a continual loop whilst writing this?

When it comes to what you do for a job, you can plan all you want (or if you’re me, leave education at sixteen with not even one iota of a plan!) but eventually, you’ll probably end up doing something completely unrelated to what you first envisaged anyway.

This is the life advice I hope to pass onto H as she begins to navigate the transition from child to adulthood. What will be will be and don’t forget that everything just seems to work out okay in the end…

7 comments on “What I Did Before I Became A Blogger… And How (Some) Of Those Roles Help Me Now”

  1. What a great post! It re-affirmed for me that everything you do helps you in some way at some point. You may not think that when you scrubbing toilets and picking up scrambled egg from the floor in the cafe you worked in at 13!!! I

    remember one of my boss’s saying that your ‘career’ is made up of ‘Stepping Stones’ and that has certainly been true in my case.

    Thanks for sharing your story.

    Kind regards

    1. So true Katharine… I’ll have to remind H of these things when she’s going through her first foray into the world of work!
      At the time you don’t think any of it is relevant to what you might want to do… if indeed you even know what that is.
      Have a lovely weekend!
      Amanda xx

  2. Loved reading this and also allowed me to reflect on my own career path, I’ve ended up working for my husband (second marriage, my first also didn’t have a desired ending). I absolutely love it and we are such a good partnership. Sometimes we have to go through the rough to find the smooth I guess ! x

    1. Hi Rachel,
      Ah thank you – I’m so pleased it resonated! I absolutely agree with you – you have to get through the bad stuff in order to recognise and appreciate the good. I’m glad to hear you have your happy ending!
      Amanda xx

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